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Doctors Exam and the Embassy |
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Our ride showed up and we were off to the medical exam. We arrived
at what looked like a large apartment building and inside there was a long line that I gratefully found out had nothing to
do with us. We wove through a couple of hallways to the office. Inside there were several families already waiting
to see the doctor. We took seats and Oksana went
and talked to the desk. It wasn't long before we were called in and the doctor had Katherine strip down to her undies and he put her up on
the table. He weighed her on a baby scale, just having her sit in the little baby holder. "5 years old and 31 pounds" he proclaimed. "Oh
she's a skinny mini". He proclaimed her very healthy but said her tonsils
were a little swollen. We said she had been coughing a little. A nurse came in and took her away for a chest x-ray that would
tell us definitively about what sort of exposure she had had to TB. We went out to the waiting room so I could spend time
worrying that maybe she still had TB and they wouldn't let her leave the country. Or maybe her lungs had been badly damaged. Jeffrey
was sliding in and out of his seat and looking for something to do when he suddenly struck up a conversation with another
adoptive parent who was holding her one year old baby. Jeffrey made faces and pretended to be a monkey making the baby smile. I was just thinking was a sweet boy he was when he suddenly turned to me and said "Mommy, isn't that an ugly baby?" I checked to see if the floor would open up and swallow me. No such luck. Jeff began apologizing
and I tried to tell Jeffrey that that wasn't a nice
thing to say. "But Mommy, it IS an ugly baby isn't it." The mother was so nice about it. She smiled and
said "Oh well WE think he's cute". Thankfully she got called at that moment into the exam room. As I was about to scold Jeffrey again he happily struck
up another conversation with a different family, this time however without placing judgment on their child's looks. The X-ray came back shortly
and the doctor looked it over and said that any concern for her having TB was overblown . He said her lungs were clear and
healthy. Finally something to smile about today. We went back to the hotel and met up with Emily.
Fortunately for her I was still in a state of relief from the doctors visit and abandoned any thought of throttling her. We
decided to have a celebratory lunch at their Japanese restaurant "Tokyo" in the hotel lobby. It was delicious. At 1:30 our driver showed up again and took just the 3 of us (me, Jeff and Katherine)
to the American Embassy for the final paperwork. Emily stayed with Jeffery in the room. Oksana was
not allowed to come with us into the building so we went in alone. Inside we paid for her visa and then sat and waited. We talked to
several other families. Two of them were also bringing home older children. One family was picking up their 7 year old daughter
who they had hosted the previous summer and another family was bringing home 2 girls who were probably about 9 and 12. They
said "We're older so we started older". Its nice to see the older ones going home. At exactly 2 PM a very American young man came
out and explained what we were about to be given and what we had to do with the paperwork. He said as soon as the plane touched
the ground in the United States our kids would become citizens. Then he said to watch for our number and step up to the window. We were the second to be called
at the first window. I was expecting an interview or at least for them to ask us questions. I thought this was still a hurdle
to overcome. But it was nothing like that. All they did was give us the paperwork and made sure we knew what to do with it. The
young American man was the one who helped us.
He reminded us 10 times not to open the manila envelope, that it was to be given to the INS in New York. He said if it was
open when we got there they would send us back to Russia. Then he said he wasn't joking. The whole thing took about 5 minutes and before we knew it we were back
in the car and heading for the hotel. Our driver dropped us off and told us they would be back to get us at 9 AM the next
morning to take us to the airport. At first when we got back to the room I was gung ho
to go sight seeing. Until I looked out the window and saw it was snowing. Since I didn't have the clothes or the stamina
to face the weather, we settled down and watched Aladdin and Shrek 2
on the DVD player we brought and hooked up to the TV. By dinner we were pretty hungry
but didn't want to spend too much since lunch had been a small fortune. At both ends of each even numbered floor there was
a small cafe. Each was different. After checking out a few of them, we found only one on our floor had a menu with some English. I asked first if they took
Visa (yes) then asked if the prices were marked in rubles. I wasn't going to make the same mistake twice... no way... THIS
time I was ahead of the game! Yes the girl said... those are rubles. WOW I thought... only $5 for entrees. We ate well and the food was delicious. I couldn't
get over the prices. 120 rubles for an large delicious salmon steak. The kids got restless and since Emily joined us late
and I hadn't finished yet I sent Jeff back to the room with them and Em and I stayed for a bit. I asked for the check and when it came it seemed rather high. I paid but kept looking
at the bill trying to figure out how she over charged me. I gave Jeff the itemized receipt when we got back to the room and
asked him to figure it out. Well I found a way to do it again. Live and Learn. |
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